Tag: Outside the Box

  • Do we love him?

    My beautiful wife and I had the pleasure recently of leading a couple’s retreat on an island just off British Columbia’s mainland. It was a glorious weekend—sans kids for us—with glorious blue skies and majestic panoramic views of the coastal mountains. Precious memories. Nine other couples participated in the weekend. Some, like us, have been…

  • Proud banners that need shredding

    I was on my Monday morning transit commute sitting near a group of people who loudly reminisced about their weekend exploits. Without embarrassment they relived what could be remembered of a wild party’s excitement, exploits and emissions—despite the presence of strangers and a few grandmas. The visualizations were a challenge to forget. That commute wrecked…

  • At the heart of all conflict is desire

    My life is great viewing. Tonight I watched my one-year-old meticulously pick through a small box of knick-knacks looking for something she could treasure. I wanted to interrupt, but then it just turned so gosh-darn cute and I watched in satisfied silence. Ah, joy. There are other days, though. Well, actually, it can be the…

  • An earthy wisdom

    About 80 percent of Canadians are city-dwellers. Despite the expanse of our nation, slightly more than a third of us dwell in only three metropolitan areas: Montreal, Toronto or Vancouver. I live in one of them. I grew up, however, in Hicksville. My backyard was an open field that provided the seasoned aroma of freshly…